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*Campus babe*
Episode 3
I immediately left for the snacks bar,and
bought him a bottle of coca cola and
meatpie,I wondered within myself “what
are my coursemates going to think?that a
girl like me could be subjected to such
humiliation” I knew that this incidence was going to lower their respect for me. Femi started eating,and there was silence
on our table I just sat there watching
chuks and Femi,who were sitting
opposite each other, Femi was giving me
a look that indicated his disappointment
and this made me look away.on the other hand, Chuks had this soft look in his eyes,

the kind of look that could comfort
someone in distress. I looked towrds the
area wher my coursemates sat, as soon as
they say my eyes they all pretended to be
doing somethign else,but I knew they were watching us. Femi finished his meal and cleared his
throat,he apologised to chuks and
extended his hands for a handshake
accompanied with a smile, chuks
accepted his handshake and his
apology.Femi got up from his seat,greeted Chuks and left without
saying a word to me. I tried to signal him
to stop,but he didn’t respond. On a normal
day I would run up to him and plead with
him till he decides to change his mind

,butthis day was not a normal day,My coursemates were watching,they had
already enjoyed the previous episode,I
couldn’t afford to create another one. Few minutes after Femi left,chuks and I
decided to go home and so did our course
mates. Chuks and I walked ahead of themsince we all decided to trek,I apologised to chuks and he said it was okay,that the
person I really needed to apologise to was Femi, I knew this but I just couldn’t
figure out a way to and this made me
really moody,but before we got to the
schOol gate,i was already cracked up with laughter from chuks and his funny thing that amazed me was how my course mates kept shut about what
they just watched,not even one of them
asked what went wrong, I had a feeling
they were going to ask Chuks later. We
said goodbye and retired to our various
destinations for the evening.

I couldn’t rest when I got home,I kept
dialing his number though he cut my call
whenever he saw it,I knew this because
whenever I dialled his number it
read”number busy”…I didn’t give up,I
kept sending apology text messages for two days,I even sent some christian
messages just to make him know I was
sorry,all of these were to no avail. Within
those two days,I visited his place up to 4
times, his roomate kept saying he was
not around. My sorryness was turned into anger,so hehas decided to ignore me right? I’ve done worse things and it didn’t take him so much time to forgive me,since he has decided to ignore me,I’ll ignore him too,he would be the one to beg for my calls,my pride got the better of me and i resolved to ignore him and anything that has to do with him until he comes back begging(which he usally does),afterall,i had tried. Unfortunately,I didn’t know there was more to come… I thought I could carry on well without

I forgot all we had been through in
our first year in school,if not for his
assistance I wouldn’t have paid my school fees on time ,I decided to forget all the good times we had, all the times he had been there for me(too many to count). I let my pride overrule my love for him, I kept saying to myself”afterall,I’m pretty
and intelligent almost any guy I like
would want to go out with me, who does
Femi even think he is?” These thoughts greatly affected my actions,I decided to
pay no more visits and ignore his call and instead spend more time with chuks at least that way I could overlook the feeling of loneliness I was experiencing.
unfortunately, I couldn’t really stick to my decisions, in fact no day passed without me dialing his number,I kept thinking of him (dnt blame me,the guy was my FIRST
love,wats a girl gonna do?)

After two weeks of no contact,I jumped
to the conclusion that Femi and I were
through,I had to deal with a strange
feeling of heartbreak accompanied with
depression. It took me about a month to
get over Femi,,I couldn’t bear the thought that I had lost femi,at some point I got
worried but my pride wouldn’t let me dial his number again, “two weeks is enough,
he has to be the one to call first” I kept
saying this to myself . One week later, my
phone rang and although I deleted Femi’s phone number,I still knew his phone
number in my head. As soon as I saw his
number,I felt joy inside and hurriedly
picked his call. “My superman(I usually called him that),I said with a playful voice…hey! what’s up
he replied with a very formal voice.
immediately he said this,I knew he
wanted to say something serious.
“There’s something I would like to tell you,he said with a more serious tone…
To Be Continued…

*Campus babe*
Episode 4
“Well I want to apologise for ignoring you
all these while,I’ve just been trying to sort
myself out and recover from the way you
treated me,I’ve not been able to…I dnt
think I can continue with this anymore,I
love you,I really do but I can’t take another episode of that kind of nonsense
which you displayed the other day, you
dnt owe me any explanation or apologies
I think its best we stay apart at least for
now,this was a hard decision to
make..bbutt… Just know that I still love you” femi said. I couldn’t believe what I had just heard,I wish h he had never called at least that
way I could keep hope alive,how could he be so harsh,because of something as little as that(I call it little because I have heard L about worse in relationships) he was really acting like the egocentric idiots (some guys are)…how can you quit a relationship with someone you love
because of somthing like this. I was
greatly disappointed and haert-broken..

Two weeks had past since Femi’s break-
up call,I had lost weight due to thinking
and not eating,I had become a shadow of
myself…all my friends had told me to get
over Femi,they had tried hooking me up
with some guys just to help me get over him,but it wsnt successful. If femi,had
told me he didn’t love me anymore,it
would have been easier for me to move
on,but this wasn’t the case,he really
emphasised on the statement “I love you”
before hanging up.why did he have to put me in a state of emotional was hard for me to
forget him and start another
relationship,after two years of loving the
love of my life.

During my period of emotional heart- break,I couldn’t concentrate well on my
academic work(it was that bad),my
roomate wanted to call my mum,but I
pleaded with her not to,because I knew
my mum was gonna march down to my
school,if she found out I was involved with a boy in anyway-to her,I was too
young to have anything to do with any
boy, and she had the mentality that every
boy-girl relationship involved s*x. After
much pep talks a nd advice sessions from
my roomate(garnished with threats to call my mum),I decided to get back on my feet and ignore anything that had to do with boys(at least for the rest of the
semester). I was still recovering from my distress when I met another shocker, I saw femi at “OUR” favorite chat spot with another girl… To Be Continued…

Campys babe*
Episode 5
I was so angry,I wanted to approach
them,but something inside me told me to
ignore them since they hadn’t seen me.
After minutes of struggling within myself
I decided to go and confront
Femi,especially when I saw how they were laughing and holdIng hands,I didn’t
notice any real intimacy between
them,but I just didn’t like the fact that
another girl was hanging around my
boyfriend at our most special place,barely a month after our break I that easy to forget?I asked myself as I took a close examination at the girl,she’s not even half as pretty as I am, Femi doesn’t like to hang around people(especially girls)that
aren’t good looking. She was putting on
designer wear all over,her shoes,her hand bag,her jean and her top looked classic.

She looked “expensive” . Could that be
why Femi was with her,but femi had no
reason to be a gold digger,his dad was a
big time offshore worker in an oil
company,and his mom was a banker,I thought to myself. I was jolted out of my thought by the
sound of Femi’s voice,I didn’t know when
I had walked up to where Femi was,I was
too busy thinking. Hi,femi said in a playful
voice,he seemed to be in a really good
mood. Hi I replied with a sarcastic tone in my voice,while eyeing the girl at his side.

Meet mY cousin amy, before I could
introduce myself, Amy jumped in and said
wow! You must be prisi,his best
friend,he’s said a lot about you already.
What???!!!I exclaimed within myself,so Femi couldn’t even teLl his so-called
cousin about us,he had to lie to her
(reducing me to best friend level was so
low of him,how could he?).how was I sure
he wasn’t even lying about her being his
cousin. Do you mind joining us? Amy asked, I saw a look on Femi’s face that
implied that he didn’t want me there,but
I ignored that look,feigned a smile and
said : no,I would love to.

I joined them despite the fact that I was
having a lecture, and we started talking… I enjoyed the conversation,but one thing
that struck me was the fact that Femi
never mentioned anything about us
during the entire conversation,even when
we talked about relationships,I didn’t
have much to say because I just broke up with my first real boyfriend and I was
expecting him to talk more on it. He just
skipped anything about us,he talked more about his ex-girlfriends much to my anger.I had to pretend I didn’t feel any anger because of Amy,she seemed so ignorant of any strife between I and

I was lost in thought only to be
brought back by Femi’s soft voice”prisi…
erm,there’s something I wanted to tell
you prisi(I felt some sweetness in my
belly,his voice was d–n cute,especially when he was trying to be soft)” yes I said
casually with a warm smile. Well, I was
planning to come see you at your
hostel,but since you’re already
here,lemme just say it…I’ve found a girl
that I love and loves and can RESPECT me (he made special emphasis on the word respect).Amy put on a great smile,wow bro,am happy for you..she hugged him and encouraged me to do the same. She didn’t even notice how shocked I looked,my eyes were teary as a result of what my ears had just heard and what my heart was still hurting over. Come on
girl,give him a hug that’s good news…he’s
your best friend isn’t he?awwww! dnt tell me you’re jealous, Amy taunted(for a girl looking so rich,she seemed nice enough). It was going to be the last hug ever,so I made the best of it,buy holding him.tighter than ever(at that moment,I
relinquished all the pain in my heart),I
almost cried(I still dnt know what force int he universe held back those tears),I freed myself from his embrace and thatwas it. My eyes were too red to remainu noticed by Amy,why do you wanna crys he asked…nothing dear,I’m just so happyh e’s found love again,they’re actually tears of joy. Femi couldn’t look into my eyes,I bade

Amy goodbye and turned to leave,prisi! I
heard Femi’s shaky voice,please don’t
leave me(I felt like getting a
Knife and stabbing him to death,all my
love had turned into hatred in that split second….

. is he crazy? What does he want
from me?).I hope you’re happy, I turned
to look at him with tears running down
my eyes,and I ran away from there,I
heard Amy calling out,I didn’t respond I
just didn’t want to see him again..ever
I left that place wondering and pondering on how foolishly I had just reacted,how
can I miss an important lecture and
possible test just because of a guy that
didn’t seem to care,he’s not worth it
joor,I sighed…something has to be done about this,and really fast,am beginning to lose it. I knew I needed to re-organise my priorities,my academics had suffered a lot because of one stupid love affair…I made up my mind not to ever love again. D–n guys! I hate them,they’re just selfish
idiots. To Be Continued…

*Campus babe*
Episode 6
Exams were fast approaching and I had a
lot to make uo fro because fo my silly
mistakes…I became a regular visitor to
the library,I didn’t want to take any
chances at failure,I knew my parents
would be so angry if I failed. With a wall constructed in my herat and
my focus strictly on my academics,I
became a shadow of myself,no friends,no
hanging out,no form of socialisation,I
became like a triangular student-me,my
school,and church and occasionaly the market(forget o,man must whack
heartbreak or not).I was able to cover up
my academic lapses(I think it was divine
intervention) and even had onw wEek
extra to just relax my brain.I had become
an anti-male,I didn’t want to see any guy close to me,this was a little bit difficult
(dnt mean to brag but,I’m not exactly the
kind of girl that most guys would see and
pass by) I had this innocent looking
babyface,that made a lot of guys think
they could easily take advantage of me… hmmn,those guys got it really tough from
me,I became rude and unfriendly to all
guys,I even became scared at a point of
how I had become just because of one
heart break.

The semester exams were soon over,and
it was time for holidays. I was just chilling
at the pool one sunday afternoon when I
heard a husky voice from behind.
prisi dear how have you been? Femi asked in a seemingly concerned manner.
i hissed and said,I’ve been just the way
you left me to be,and i don’t think that is
your concern in anyway
i got up from where i was sitting and
walked away. prisi!please hold on,okay…i was defiant and i picked up my clothes
flagged down a cab,and left.

on my way home,different thoughts were
going through my mind,maybe i should
have just listened to him,idiot! i don’t
think he would have said anything relevant,if he wanted to,he could have
called a long time ago,or did he not know
my number.

. I was brought back by the
sound of the taxi drivers loud horn.Driver,
wetin sef? you wan block pesin ear,shoo?i
said with annoyance in my voice.come,no b me make you vex o,if you know wetin
dey vex you beta maintain yoursef o, the
driver replied. I no blame you,na because
say you see me for you useless taxi
na,nonsense,i hissed. When i got home,i
couldn’t help but curse myself for refusing to hear him out,a part of me still wanted
him badly,i kept rewinding his voice in my soft,i wondered how i was able
to ignore it for the first time.
should i call him? hell no! who does he
think he is? if he really had anything important to tell me,he would have called.
“somebody saaaaavee me”…my phone
was ringing, i knew my superman was
calling…that was his ringing tone.
To Be Continued…

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