3 SIGNS TO KNOW ITS TIME FOR YOU TO BREAK UP WITH HIM OR HER
*DATING: 3 SIGNS TO KNOW IT’S TIME TO BREAK UP WITH HIM/HER*
There are times when in a relationship, you feel good and then, now, you start asking questions if this is the time to break up but you are not sure if you are in the right position to break up. Breaking up is hard and you don’t want to end up regretting breaking up with the right one and, at the same time, you don’t want to keep being in a relationship with a partner who’s not right for you. Here are three signs you should take the action of breaking up.
*1. You’re Simply Not Happy:* It is ok to not be happy at times in your relationship. A relationship without its ups and downs is not a healthy relationship anyway. But, in a general sense, a person in the right relationship is going to be happy. Therefore, if you find yourself wondering frequently whether you should break up with your partner the that’s a clear sign that things should end. *Remember* I said “frequently”. Don’t break up on the slightest unhappy feeling.
*2. You Don’t Think You’ll Regret It:* Remember this – regret is not the same as feeling bad for someone. It is a painful disappointment in one’s self for missing out on something that could have been good. If you are sure that even after breaking up with your partner, you will not regret it later then do it. If you also regret frequently for getting into the relationship, then this is a sign you must end things as quick as possible.
*3. You Don’t Communicate Well:* For establishing intimacy in a relationship requires sharing of deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams and fears. Without these, the two of you do not understand each other on a deeper level and due to this, you guys end up feeling no sort of bonds for each other. If you are experiencing this on a frequent level, it is better to end things unless you are someone who enjoys it.
By J Clark