MY BOY FRIEND IS VERY CARING BUT CANT DO AWAY WITH HIS EXs, SHOULD I STILL STAY WITH HIM?
I HAVE A HEAVY HEART AND I NEED TO POUR IT OUT.
ADMIN AND OTHERS PLS HELP ME OUT WITH YOUR OPINION.
I am 20 years of 300 level student and my boy friend is 29 and he is working
I have issues with him concerning his attitudes on how he relate with his EXs.
He’s kinda use to her though, we’ve been together for 2yrs now but last week I went through he’s WhatsApp chat and read their chat, but he has saved her number with”💜” so I was so upset I had to walk up to him and ask why are you still talking with her and the answer I got was that, YOU ARE STUPID FOR ASKING THAT QUESTIONS.
I felt bad then immediately I told him if he’s seeing me off he should com see me off I’m ready to leave, again all he said was he’s busy (washing he’s plate) he can’t leave what he’s doing if I can’t wait I should go,
Then I left few minutes later immediately I got home I saw he’s calls I missed them and I couldn’t return em because of the mood I was in.
He then sent a text that he’s truly sorry for calling me stupid.
The next day I board tricycle going to he’s house then I called him I asked if he is at home, he said no, then I said I’m close to his street he should tell me his current location and all he said was I’m not home that’s all u need to know, u can’t just come without giving me a call.
I felt bad then I called him when I got home, I told him not to call my phone anymore that he should just move on since I meant nothing to him and that’s was it till last night that I had to call him and I asked him if he doesn’t care about my feelings, and why did he act that way.
All he said was he warned me time without number to stop going through he’s phone chat, that I’ll keep on hurting myself that I should focus on him and him as a reality and take my mind off he’s social media,
that I’m not the first he’s having such issues with but the way I handle mine is funny.
I couldn’t say a word to him.
This same person has cheated on me with a girl he calls he’s sister after that was exposed, he apologized and we continue the relationship again.
I’ve done an abortion for this same person but against all odd we still together.
What’s really hurting me is the way he relate with he’s ex.
The other day I was sick so he was seeing me off and he branched to greet his friends.
I was sitting then I saw he’s ex passing by.
Then he left me to meet her, embraced her and dey gisted for long.
Then he left with her I was upset by this, and when, I saw him I asked him awfa where u go he said I saw her off the road because it’s not safe for her.
Mean while that isn’t the first time she is passing that road so how could u leave me that is sick to see ur ex off .
He just said please don’t start again and I was in disbelief but I let that one pass.
Yesterday’s all he said was how can I bring up issue like that while the person I’m talking about is somewhere enjoying herself and we are fighting over her.
That he can’t have High BP because of that.
I really don’t know what to do I’m broken but I still want him I just wish he would call me to mend things.
Regardless of all these he’s caring and I’d like it to be him he understands me more just that he’s flaws are kinda much
But i am kind off decided that I’m not calling him again but is this how the relationship will ends?
Ok, no problem even though, that it will hurt me more but I’ll get over it.