JOINT ACCOUNTS BUT WHY WOULD MY HUSBAND REFUSE TO HELP MY FAMILY BUT CARES FOR HIS?
Please Madam help me to post and hide my identity.
Please I need your opinion on this matter, me and my husband are having joint account (that was the agreement from both of us) but I discovered that my husband don’t like anything about my family people, he is not ready to render any help to any member of my family,
he even insult them and call them different abusive names anytime he is discussing with me about them and he have never have any misunderstanding with any of them before, he told me several times that he don’t like anything about yoruba people and I am from Yoruba while he is Igbo.
But he always render help to all members of his family, anytime they have problem they will always run to him for help and he will help them but never ready to help anybody from my family.
What pissed me up now is that there was a time when my father was sick and admitted in the hospital, my father called me severally for help but he always tell me to tell my father to call my other siblings, my father even called him once and he told my father there is no money unfortunately I lost my father to that illness
but surprisingly today, as we are discussing, he now made me know that he paid his brother’s daughter school fees and also gave his sister money to treat her kidney problem.
I now remember that all these money he gave them was towards that period my father was in the hospital that was why he hide it from me since because anytime he is giving his family people money he doesn’t hide it from me before.
He is very caring to me and our children and he always let me know that he loves me so much. But my issue now is why will he be so wicked to my family and not as if they have ever done anything wrong to him, as a matter of fact they all love him but he hate them for no reason.
WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST I SHOULD SO PLEASE.
Sorry for long post. Thank you