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I M ANGRY, SHOULD I CONFRONT MY WIFE? SHE IS PRETENDING TO BE A GOOD WIFE

I M ANGRY, SHOULD I CONFRONT MY WIFE? SHE IS PRETENDING TO BE A GOOD WIFE

MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW.

I have been married for 14years ‘we’ have 3 kids (all boys) but none of them belongs to me.

I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain.

5 years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road.

I was the only survivor of that accident, all my friends died.
I spent about 11 months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can’t have children.

I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my state 5 years later and met my wife in the process.

I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God of miracle will heal me soon but 6 years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had ‘our’ first child.

To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn’t the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.

I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.

My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes round preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don’t know.

I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about d situation
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately.

I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!?
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    Mr pastor,those kids are by marriage, DNA or not. You were at fault from the onset,you should have told your wife about your condition.

    Now in other to find out if your wife is cheating,confront her with your own secret and see if she will confess. Best of luck to both of you.

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