WOULD MY WEDDING HURT MY STEPFATHER WHO RAISED ME? ANITA ASKED AS SHE IS ABOUT TO WED
My mother and I returned to Nigeria when I was five, after a bitter divorce. My dad remained abroad and we rarely heard from him.
After awhile, Mum later met and married another man who raised me and my brother as his own and my two other half siblings.
Growing up, I always dream of having a society wedding I do read about in the soft sell.
Late last year, my boyfriend of four years proposed to me and we’ve planned a December wedding. My parents have offered to pay for part of the wedding, but as none of us has much money in savings for such kind of wedding, so we had settled for a small wedding and reception.
Then out of the blues, my real father got in touch. He said he’d heard I was getting married and wanted to help. He’s offered to pay for the whole wedding, and said money was no problem. I talked to my mum, who said we could accept the offer if we wanted to.
My fiance and I don’t know what to do. The money would certainly give us the wedding of our dreams, but I am thinking that my stepfather may be hurt with my father showing up at this time and also may not want my mum having contact with my father
Do you think I should take the money?
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