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WOULD MY WEDDING HURT MY STEPFATHER WHO RAISED ME? ANITA ASKED AS SHE IS ABOUT TO WED

WOULD MY WEDDING HURT MY STEPFATHER WHO RAISED ME? ANITA ASKED AS SHE IS ABOUT TO WED

My mother and I returned to Nigeria when I was five, after a bitter divorce. My dad remained abroad and we rarely heard from him.

 

After awhile, Mum later met and married another man who raised me and my brother as his own and my two other half siblings.

 

Growing up, I always dream of having a society wedding I do read about in the soft sell.

 

Late last year, my boyfriend of four years proposed to me and we’ve planned a December wedding. My parents have offered to pay for part of the wedding, but as none of us has much money in savings for such kind of wedding, so we had settled for a small wedding and reception.

 

Then out of the blues, my real father got in touch. He said he’d heard I was getting married and wanted to help. He’s offered to pay for the whole wedding, and said money was no problem. I talked to my mum, who said we could accept the offer if we wanted to.

 

My fiance and I don’t know what to do. The money would certainly give us the wedding of our dreams, but I am thinking that my stepfather may be hurt with my father showing up at this time and also may not want my mum having contact with my father

 

Do you think I should take the money?

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  1. My dear please don’t dull yourself. Take the money from you biological dad and keep it safe for life continues after wedding o. You can go on with the initial simple wedding if you don’t want to hurt your step dad. That’s my candid advice. Cos who knows, your biological dad might not get in touch with you again after the wedding cos he only came to show off which is obvious.  Tell me, if you hurt your step dad  by having a society wedding, who will you run to when marriage palavas starts surfacing?… So be wise, collect the money from you dad and save for the future while you have your initial wedding plan. That way, you’ll have nothing to loose

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