IS MY MUM RIGHT TELLING ME TO CHANGE MY SURNAME TO MY STEP FATHER`S NAME? I AM CONFUSED!?
I’m a girl of 16 and my mother is 46 but she keeps troubling me me on about changing my surname to my stepfather’s name and I just dont feel good about it.
My step-father is just a really good man and I see him as a father too, I just don’t really want to change my last name and my mum couldnt let me be at all.
Now i am feeling irrational after all what my step father has done for me in terms of sponsoring my educations from primary through secondary education and i just gained admissions into a private University in Ogun state.
I honestly feel like there is no point because but I’m not sure how to go about it without hurting anyone feelings or being rude.
My mum hates my father and doesnt want to have nothing to do with anything about him, because he was irresponsible, abusive towards my mom, sister and i and never look back since he threw us out when we were in cradles
My parents want to make us change our last name because she hates it and me too feel uncertain about it for personal reasons and I’m not sure what to do about it.