I AM AFRAID OF MEETING MY WIFE IN BEDROOM
AFRAID TO MEET MY WIFE IN BEDROOM???
With all the talks about sex and the various gadgets available as helps, offered to wards making the average man a real man to his partner, little wonder that a lot of men are running scared of the bedroom, especially if madam is waiting on the bed, with a full expectation on her face.
These days, you hear men sadly though, giving excuses that were of women those days pretending to have headache looking for paracetamol or painkillers with a not-tonight-darling groan.
When a young man goes off sex, a woman tends to assume the worst, says a sex expert. He might blame the beer for the fact that things aren’t working too well. Or try to avoid the issue by staying up to watch late night television Meanwhile, his partner thinks: “He doesn’t fancy me any more – he’s got someone else.”
But a man who has stopped making moves in your direction may not be a cheating love rat.
He could simply be suffering from the kind of problem that normally affects men of pensionable age
Experts now report that ED – Erectile Dysfunction – is increasing among young men – And it’s largely because of their lifestyle. They smoke too much. They drink too much. They take too many drugs.
And then they can’t perform as well as they’d like in bed. Until recently ED – which can be an underlying symptom of heart disease was considered an older man’s problem.
Indeed, the profile is changing and it has becomes a young adult challenges.
Dr. Goeffiey Hackett an expert in Sexual Medicine says every week, he sees two new patients who are aged under 30, yet are suffering from ED. According to him. No one is happy to be an average any more or a one minutes man Because of this pressure, younger men are worried and sick about being useless in the bed, Yet they are running a lifestyle that complicate the issues, whether it is alcohol, smoking or taking cannabis, as a result, the consequences for relationships can be serious. When a younger man starts to fail to get an erection, he begins to withdraw from sexual activity altogether, because no one enjoys doing something they are not good at.
Where the ED sufferer is a 60-year-old diabetic, his wife is unlikely to leave him. But if a younger man starts failing to have an erection, then the first thing his partner thinks is that he has got someone else, and she may as well leave.”
The said thing here is that there is also an influx of young men in their early 20s who are suffering from performance anxiety.
If they are not able to have sex three times a night, they think they aren’t normal.
If they have problems, they are often too embarrassed to discuss them and get solutions. This increases the problem tenfold. Young male clients tell me that they are looking for a relationship when they go out on a date but find that some young women are insisting on having sex straightway.”
Sadly, women can be very dismissive if the man is unable to perform and this justifies his worst fears.
If a young man has erectile problems, he is more likely to resolve them if he has a girlfriend who is committed to him rather than flirting from one woman to the other.
I tell them to slow down and enjoy the journey rather than attempting to arrive at the destination too soon.
Official figures of men under 30 who suffer from ED do not take account of those too embarrassed to see their doctors. Instead, they resort to buying drugs like Viagra or enhancement pills which are widely available at reputable chemists here in Nigeria.
Those who couldn’t afford the very high prices of these drugs resorted to downing dangerous concoctions from herbalists that guarantee instant boost to their libido.
Apart from the risk of being sold counterfeit tablets, it also means that underlying cause of their problem – such as low testosterone levels, or Type 2 diabetes – may remain undiagnosed